¡Ai Chihuahua!

These last few days have been eventful. We had a parent-teacher conference at Morrigan’s school on Wednesday. She’s doing very well, is one of the top students in the class, and will be participating in a small, advanced reading group. She had all A’s and one B–she just missed getting the A in Math. We’ll continue to work with her at home. She wants that A, yo.

I talked to the teacher about Morrigan’s bully problem, the extent of which I was hitherto unaware.

When the kids line up, they always line up in the same order. The boy who lined up behind her was calling her names, telling her she was “nasty”, and hitting and kicking her. He always waits until lunch or at after school club to do it, though, so the teacher had no idea it was happening. I was so angry at the little coward! Morrigan, on the other hand, just wants everyone to be friends, so she wasn’t “telling”. The saddest part was when she told me this:

“But, Mom, he was nice to me the day I wore my SpongeBob shirt.”

“Morrigan, sweetie, you need to listen to me: just because a boy is nice to you one time does not make it OK for him to hit, kick, or belittle you the rest of the time. His behavior is unacceptable. You should never put up with that. You need to tell.”

The whole thing was rather upsetting. It does help to understand why she didn’t like school more. She’s smart and personable and makes friends easily. I couldn’t understand. I knew this kid would give her problems now and again, but I did not know the extent of what was happening.

The good news is that the teacher was responsive. She reiterated that it was OK for Morrigan to “tell”. She made sure Morrigan understood which adults she should go to if it happened at lunch or club. She also moved Morrigan to a different position in line.

When she came home from school yesterday, I asked her, as I always do, “How was your day?”

“It was great!’

“Do you have a new place in line?”

“Yes! Now I line up with C and M!”

“Did anyone try to bully you?”

“No! And E is helping me with subtraction, and I’m helping her with addition!”

She was a very happy little girl, and I am a happy Mom.

Tom took her to school this morning, and she was excited to go. She woke up right away, got ready, and didn’t hang back so much as she usually does. YAY! On the way home, Tom stopped to pick some things up at the store. As he was heading back, he saw a chihuahua lying on the side of the road. He thought it was dead, but then he saw it twitch.

I should tell you that Tom is a great animal lover. I have never known him not to rescue an animal in need. (Once, at Morrigan’s fourth birthday party, he saw a toad fall into the pool. He jumped in, fully clothed, to rescue it before anyone else even knew what had happened.) So I was not terribly surprised when he came home with a small, frightened dog in the push cart.

The dog, an unneutered male, is wearing a harness but no tags. He looks well cared for; his teeth are healthy, nails are trimmed, fur is relatively clean, and he is neither under- nor overfed. He does not appear to have been hit by a car: he has no external injuries. Nonetheless, we took him to a nearby vet to have him scanned for a chip and given a once over by a professional. Sadly, he lacks a chip as well as tags. On the other hand, he does not appear to have any medical issues outside of a little dysplasia in one of his elbows. He was pretty drooly for a chihuahua, but we think that was fear and nervousness more than anything.

We took him back home to keep an eye on him and see if we can find his owner. He got sick shortly after we returned but seems to be feeling better (though still unhappy to find himself in this strange place). He’s very sweet and calm for a chihuahua.

It’s a good thing all this happened while Morrigan is still in school. The girl wants a chihuahua (specifically) so badly. We’ll have to explain that we’re not keeping him, that somewhere he has an owner who is probably very sad and worried about him. We’ll have to warn her to be quiet and gentle because, aside from the fact that he is scared, we do not know how he responds to children.

sigh

I actually wouldn’t mind getting Morrigan a dog, but I feel the time is just not right. We’re barely getting back on our feet. Getting a dog now means pet deposits, vet bills, and all of the other expenses that come with pet ownership. So, if we are unable to find this little guy’s owner, we’ll be looking for a rescue or no-kill shelter. I know it’s the logical thing to do, but I still feel like a bit of a heel.

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10 thoughts on “¡Ai Chihuahua!

  1. I’m so sorry poor little Morrigan was getting bullied but it’s great that the teacher was so helpful and got it sorted (and also great that she’s doing so well in school!).
    I hope the chihuahua’s owner turns up, poor little doggie. Well done for taking care of him in the meantime.

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    • Thanks, Ali.

      Morrigan already seems to be enjoying school a lot more, and I am so glad and thankful she has a responsive teacher. I do hope that they can help the boy, too. He’s only six.

      As for our little chihuahua friend, he is nervous and unhappy, and he seems to really want to go home. I’m waiting for a package at the moment. Once either it arrives or Tom gets back home I’ll walk him around the neighborhood in the hopes of finding his owner. In the meantime, I’m going to post a “Found Dog” notice on craigslist.

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  2. I’m glad Morrigan’s not getting bullied any more. I was bullied in school and it was traumatic, all the more so because the teachers did nothing about it. I wasn’t the only one though. My best friend got it much worse.

    Little doggy sounds as cute as a button. Your hubby is awesome!

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    • Ah, Tony! It broke my heart to hear she was being treated this way. I asked her to point the kid out to me, and he was much bigger than she. I truly hope the teachers are able to work with him on whatever his issues are. I don’t want him bullying any of the other kids, either.

      We actually did find the little dog’s owners: a couple of young kids. He seemed as happy and relieved to see them as they were to see him. 🙂

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  3. Bullying sucks. You handled it well. What a difference a day and some affirmation makes! Morrigan is fortunate to have such loving, life affirming parents!
    Dogs are born every second of every bloody day. Take your time getting one as they tend to get expensive and kids sense of responsibility for it wanes. It would soon be your dog. (Do I sound bitter?!)…and I Love animals…I really do!

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